Provincetown harbor at dusk with Pilgrim Monument, colorful waterfront houses, MacMillan Pier and sailboats

Gay Provincetown

P-Town gay guide

Provincetown, or P-town, sits at the tip of Cape Cod and has long been one of the most LGBTQ+ friendly destinations in the United States. The town is small but packed with personality, attracting visitors from across the world who come for beaches, art, and nightlife.

By day, P-town shines with cultural and natural attractions. Commercial Street is the main artery, lined with galleries, shops, and cafés. Art has deep roots here, with many local studios and exhibitions open to visitors. Nature is never far away either. The Cape Cod National Seashore offers miles of sandy beaches and dunes, perfect for long walks or lazy afternoons.

The community feel is strong. Provincetown has been a safe haven for LGBTQ+ people for decades, and the atmosphere remains inclusive and social. Festivals such as Bear Week and Carnival bring thousands, while the summer season is packed with events.

At night, the town’s gay bars, clubs, and cabaret venues keep the energy going until late. The mix of drag shows, dance floors, and seaside terraces creates an atmosphere that is both relaxed and lively. Provincetown is not just a holiday spot—it’s a destination that feels like it belongs to the community.

Where to stay in P-Town

Most visitors choose to stay near Commercial Street, the heart of Provincetown’s action. Guesthouses, boutique hotels, and rentals line the area, keeping you close to galleries, shops, and nightlife. Many places are gay-owned and welcoming, adding to the community feel. Summer is the busiest season, with events, parties, and long beach days. July and August are peak months, while September offers a slightly calmer pace with warm weather. Spring and autumn are quieter but still charming. Winter is very quiet, but it can be appealing for those looking for solitude and a different Cape Cod experience.

Hotel recommendations

Harbor Hotel Provincetown
Harbor Hotel Provincetowngradegradegrade

100+ rooms

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hotel Cape Colony Inn, Provincetown
Cape Colony Inngradegradegrade

30+ rooms

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hotel Eastwood at Provincetown
Eastwood at Provincetown

10+ rooms

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hotel White Porch Inn, Provincetown
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10+ rooms

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The Provincetown Hotel at Gabriel's
The Provincetown Hotel at Gabriel'sgradegradegradegrade

10+ rooms

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Gay nightlife in Provincetown

Provincetown’s nightlife is central to its character. Bars and clubs are clustered around Commercial Street, making it easy to hop between venues. Expect drag shows, cabaret, and DJ nights, with something happening every evening in summer. The crowd is diverse and social, with visitors mixing easily with locals. Popular events like Carnival week and Bear Week take the nightlife up a notch, with packed parties and themed evenings. Unlike many small towns, P-town’s scene stays lively well into the night, combining seaside charm with a buzzing LGBTQ+ energy. It’s nightlife with a strong sense of community.

Crown & Anchor

Crown & Anchor is Provincetown's Premier Entertainment Complex
Located in the heart of Provincetown, The Crown & Anchor features six bars including the town's largest nightclub (Paramount), the town's only video bar (Wave), a cabaret venue, a poolside bar with heated pool, a piano bar and an ever-popular leather bar (The Vault).

The Crown also features the Central House at the Crown—a year-round restaurant offering lunch and dinner.

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Crown & Anchor
247 Commercial Street, Provincetown

A-House

The Atlantic House, also known as the A-House, is Provincetown's most popular and only year-round dance club. This complex consists of the Little Bar (cruise bar with juke box) - The Macho Bar (Provincetown's original leather and Levi bar) & the Big Room (Provincetown's #1 Dance Club!)

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4 - 6 Masonic Place, Provincetown
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    12:00 - 01:00
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